A & L - I just read this.. It's profound.. I had to jump up and put this on here before I got many pages past and forgot what it said. Read this.. Remember this.. I know I need to...

You do not have to be your mother unless she is who you want to be. You do not have to be your mother's mother, or your mother's mother's mother, or even your grandmother's mother on your father's side. You many inherit their chins or their hips or their eyes, but you are not destined to become the women who came before you. You are not destined to live their lives. So if you inherit something, inherit their strenght, their resilience. Because the only person you are testined to become is the person you decide to be.

Pam Finger

Anyway.. I just had to share that...