Mens Thinking

I was having a conversation the other day, the subject was why men and women cheat. This is my theory. Men and women cheat for very differnt reasons... well let me revise that statement - MOST men and woman cheat for very different reasons - some will cheat for the same reasons - and not all men and women will cheat on their partners... ok... that said, I will now make broad sweeping statements about men and women in general and more precisely about men who cheat and woman who cheat, but still the comments and statements are broad generalizations, because as most everyone knows, the rules do not apply 100% of the time to 100% of the people, there will always be exceptions. OK, that's the end of my disclaimer. Men cheat for very simple reasons - and I say this with a certain amount of knowledge on this matter as I have had more than my fair share of relationships with cheating men - men cheat for sex. Plain and simply sex. They either want it because they aren't getting it/aren't getting enough, or as one of my cheating men friends put it so bluntly "it's not the pussy they are getting, it's to see what other pussy they can get." So some men are doing it because they are or precieve themselves as being sexually deprived and some just because they are in a constant state of heat - much like a dog who humps anything that stands still long enough. End of story. Why do women cheat? Women cheat for simple reasons also - they want to be loved. They cheat because the feel that they are not getting the love/emotional response from their partner that they want/deserve. Women are more likely to enter into a love affair and men into a sexual affair. There are of course exceptions, the woman who just want the hot steamy sex with the muscle bound pool boy because sex with hubby is boreing or the man who feels unloved and unappreciated who finds someone who will make him feel loved and wanted. AND of course this is the one that applies to both sexes - there are the revenge cheaters. These are the people who are pissed at their partner for something - mostly because said partner has cheated on them and they found out - and they are cheating to get back at them. This is by far the stupidest reason to cheat. One is less likely to look carefully for a cheating partner or be carefully in general - ultimately makeing and ugly situation down right scary. AND - the last and most pathetic reason - this also applies to both men and women - is because they want to feel young - they precieve themselves as getting old and not being sexy anymore so they have an affair to feel young and sexy again. Sad and pittiful.

Anyway - that's the end of my little 'study' on this subject. Thank you very much for your attendance at this lecture. Be sure to show up next time, you never know what the subject will be, but be certain it will not be boreing. ;o)

Off to bed - must work tomorrow.